Marriage & Family

In her years in continental Europe and the UK, she met a Parsi, Feroze Gandhi, (Feroze Khan born to Nawab Khan and Ghandy who was a Parsi changed his surname to Gandhi after marriage with Indira) a Congress activist, and eventually married him on 16 March 1942 at Anand Bhawan Allahabad in a private Adi Dharm Brahmo Vedic ceremony still noted for its unconventionality.

The marriage was opposed by orthodox Hindus because it was an inter communal love marriage not arranged by her parents. Jawaharlal Nehru too opposed the marriage on grounds that the couple was somewhat incompatible because both possessed fiery tempers. Publicly, however, both Jawaharlal Nehru and Mahatma Gandhi strenuously defended the marriage. Shortly after their marriage just before the beginning of the Quit India Movement - the final, all-out national revolt launched by Mahatma Gandhi and the Congress Party. In September 1942, Indira & Feroze were arrested by the British authorities and detained without charge. She was ultimately released on 13 May 1943, having spent about 243 days in jail and Feroze Gandhi after a year. In 1944, she gave birth to Rajiv Gandhi with Feroze Gandhi, followed by Sanjay Gandhi. After the release Feroze Gandhi became editor of The National Herald, a newspaper founded by Jawaharlal Nehru, and Mrs. Indira Gandhi became the principal confidant and assistant of her father during the period of Nehru's prime ministership (1947-1965). Their marriage started out well, but deteriorated later when she moved to New Delhi to be at the side of her father, the Prime Minister at the time, who was living alone in a high-pressure environment at Teen Murti Bhavan. She became his confidante, secretary and nurse. Her sons lived with her, but she eventually separated from Feroze, though they remained legally married.
The couple separated for a number of years during the 1950s as Feroze Gandhi launched his own political career in Parliament and was often at odds with Jawaharlal Nehru's policies and style. In 1959 Indira Gandhi became President of the Indian National Congress and in 1964 she was elected to the Parliament. Meanwhile, the death of Feroze Gandhi (by a heart attack) in 1960, and the subsequent death of her father in 1964, forced Indira Gandhi to withdraw into a shell and limit herself to her immediate family.